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爱是你和别人之间的关系。静心是你和你自己之间的关系。爱是往外的，静心是向内的。爱是分享。但是假如你自己都没有爱，你如何能够去分享爱呢？你能分享什么呢？

人们有着愤怒、嫉妒和憎恨，所以在爱的名义下，他们开始分享这些东西，因为这是他们所拥有的。一旦蜜月期结束了，你摘掉你的各种面具，真相揭露出来了，那么你会分享什么呢？你会分享你有的。如果你有愤怒，你就会分享你的愤怒，如果有占有欲，你就会去占有。那么就会有冲突、对抗和挣扎，每一方都想要控制、主导另一方。

静心会给予你一些你可以去分享的东西。静心会给予你品质跟能量，当你跟某人去连结时，这份品质跟能量可以转变成爱。通常你不具有这份品质。没有人有这份品质。你必须要去创造出它。爱并不是你生来就有的。

爱是你必须要去创造的；你必须要去成为爱。这是一个挣扎和努力，一门伟大的艺术。

当你内在有了满溢出来的爱，你就能够去分享。但是这种情况只有在你能够跟自己去连接时才会发生。而静心，就只是学习跟自己连结。

SOMETHING TO SHARE

Love is a relationship between you and somebody else. Meditation is a relationship between YOU and you. Love is outgoing, meditation is ingoing. Love is a sharing. But how can you share love if you don't have it in the first place? What will you share?

People have anger, people have jealousies, people have hatred, so in the name of love they start sharing these things, because that's what they have. Once the honeymoon is over and you put down your masks, and the reality is revealed,then what will you share? You will share that which you have. If anger, then anger, if possessiveness, then possessiveness. Then there is fighting and conflict and struggle, and each tries to dominate the other.

Meditation will give you something you can share. Meditation will give you the quality,the energy that can become love when you are related to somebody. Ordinarily you don't have that quality. Nobody has it. You have to create it. Love is not something you are born with.

It is something that you have to create; it is something that you have to become. Itis a struggle, an effort, and a great art.

When you have overflowing love within you, then you can share. But that can happen onlywhen you can relate to yourself. And meditation is nothing but learning to relate to yourself.

摘自：OSHO《OSHO Everyday：365 Daily Meditation for the HERE and NOW》