巴关:什么是爱

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Q: What exactly is love, Bhagavan? Is love also an emotion like anger, like jealousy or is it a power that is hidden within man? Would love lead to suffering or to joy?":
问题:巴关,到底什么是爱?爱象是一种情绪吗?,如愤怒,嫉妒,或一种力量,它隐藏在人类的内在.会导致苦难或快乐吗?

The love that we are talking about is not an emotion, nor some power, as you say. It is none of these things. This love cannot be spoken about. We can tell you what it is not. The love of a parent for the child is not this love. The love between a man and a woman is not this love.

巴关回答: 我们现在所谈到的爱,它不是一种情感,一种力量,象你说的.它不是这些东西.这个爱不能被说出来.我们能告诉你它不是什么.它不是父母对孩子的爱,它不是男女之间的爱.

Your love of your friend is not this love. It is not attachment, it is not possession, it is not concern, it is not caring, it is none of these things. It is the stuff with which this universe is created. It is the stuff of the universe. It is your true nature. It is that which is there. If you go deeper and deeper into reality what there is, it is emptiness (The state of containing nothing). It is all emptiness.

它不是与你的朋友之间的爱.它不是执着,它不是占有,它不是关心,它不是在意,它不是这些.它是宇宙创造出来的东西.它是你的本然.它在这.如果你能够深深地进入它本来的实像里,它是空(什么都没有的状态).它就是空性.

That emptiness is love. That is the love we are talking about. It has to be experienced. At the first level you have to become enlightened, at the second level a divine being must come into you, only then you will know what it is. Otherwise it is beyond your grasp. We are not condemning the love you are experiencing now. This kind of love is perfectly fine.

那个空就是爱,我们正在谈论的.它必须被经验.首先第一个层次是你必须开悟,第二个层次是让神进入你,到那个时候你就知道它是什么.否则它超出了你的理解.我们不批判你目前所经验的爱.这种爱也是完美的.

What we are telling is, `that' love has no cause. If you see somebody, there will be `that' love. If you see an ant there will be `that' love. There is no cause for `that' love. For the love that you know there must be a cause. It must be your child, wife, friend, then there is love. On the other hand, when you experience causeless Love, you are in Oneness. You are no more separate from the dog, the leper, the beggar, or the rich.nobody is separate from you. There is complete Oneness. It is a love born of Oneness. So, It has no cause."

我们在讲得是没有理由的爱(无条件的).如果你看到某人,在那里有爱.如果你看到一只蚂蚁,这里有爱.这就是没有原因的爱.同样对你的孩子,妻子,朋友,在这些里有爱.在另一面,当你经验我无条件的爱时,你就是在一里.你不再与狗分开,与麻风病人分开,与乞丐分开,或与富有分开.没有一个人从你分开.这就是完全的合一.这是一个由合一生出的爱,所以一定没有理由(条件).


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