沟通是一神圣的行为

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摘要: 沟通不会自行发生的。它需要说者与听者同时临在当下…           聆听是需要精力专注的，你需具备对他人的接收能力。    当我们不在接收状态时，我们不该故作聆听状。   我们需要让对方知道，自己当前不在接收状态中；   反之，当别人无法聆听时，我们也不该试图与他/她分享任何事情。   沟通不会自行发生的。它需要说者与听者同时临在当下。   当双方都能全然临在时，沟通成了神圣的行为   Communication is a Sacred Act   Listening takes energy and attention. It takes receptivity to the other person. When we aren’t receptive, we should not try to listen.  We should let the other person know that we are not in a receptive state.  Conversely, when the other person cannot offer this attention to us, we shouldn’t try to share with him or her.  
  Communication does not happen by itself.  It requires both the speaker and the listener to be present. When both are present fully, it is a sacred act.  转自:奇迹课程中文部 Paul Ferrini 专栏 2007/1/12